Mother in the middle

Mother in the middle

Farm Family Coach: This Mother’s Day, work to communicate with each other, not through Mom as an intermediary

When two family members are unable to have effective communication, they often turn to someone else to hear them out. Many times, alas, this is Mom.

Analyzing your farm’s future cash requirements can help safeguard you from a major pitfall.

Common pitfalls in farm finances

Farm Family Coach: Active management in some key areas can reduce unnecessary struggles for your farm

Consider how cash management, diversification, risk management and investments could reduce unnecessary struggles faced by your farm.


calculating taxes

Farmers’ sons have no interest in taking over family farm

Farm Financial Planner: A tax-light liquidation of a farm calls for some planning well in advance

Jack and Mary need to retire, but a sale of their farm will the only way to get there because their grown children have no interest in farming. A tax-light liquidation of a farm, though, will take some planning well in advance.

Adapt to change with the power of grief

Adapt to change with the power of grief

Farm Family Coach: Major changes — even the ones we know are for the better — will come with a surge of negative emotions

When a person goes through a major change in life, they experience a downward trend of negative emotions — often expressed as anger or sadness — before they can fully accept that change.


A late spouse’s will may call for farmland to be divided to all children, even non-farm heirs, but a surviving spouse will need to consider new circumstances that have appeared in the meantime.

Grandma, stop hurting your family’s farm transition

Seeds of Encouragement: Hard commitment to a late spouse’s wishes may not align with what’s now happening in the business

The situation: A mom is not willing to consider that her dead husband’s wishes — which she wants to honour – may not be the best direction for the farm or the family in the current situation of 2025.

Editor’s Rant: Thanks, Elaine

Editor’s Rant: Thanks, Elaine

Much of Elaine Froese’s life has been devoted to helping farm families communicate in healthy and productive ways

Thanks to our friend and longtime contributor Elaine Froese, whose final Seeds of Encouragement column appears in this issue. It takes a special kind of person to want to help people navigate their way through conflict.