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I once asked my Sunday school class, a faithful group of farmers and rural folks, “How do you find out what someone really needs?” They shared their thoughts on listening deeply, spending time with people to build relationships, and relying on God to give wisdom. We’ve learned how we are all shaped differently by our experiences in life, and yet every person can show love by connecting to someone and pointing the way to a relationship with God.

At Easter time I am excited to share in the celebration of the resurrection of Jesus Christ, the Son of God. Years ago I attended the film “The Passion.” The small brown pamphlet ( I found at the back of the theatre is something that none of the film’s critics will discuss. It offers answers to your deepest needs:

  •  Pure love,
  •  Everlasting life,
  •  Complete forgiveness,
  •  Ultimate wholeness.

“Our greatest felt needs are to be loved, forgiven, whole and alive,” writes Brian Mavis. A relationship with Jesus will meet your deepest needs.

Readers tell me that they appreciate the times I use scripture, and share the good news of the Gospel. I have written many things this winter about the struggles farm families are facing, yet what sustains those who have faith? I believe that the resurrected life of Jesus gives us “a reason to hope and not just cope.” My friends who are coping with a serious illness were encouraged when their doctor said, “You will make it, you are people of faith.”

I received a phone call from a frustrated farmer who wonders if he will ever be happy. His needs are to be loved, forgiven, and feel whole and alive. As a Christian I have the greatest treasure, the knowledge that God loves me unconditionally, and that when I die, I will have eternal life in heaven. My sins are forgiven, and my purpose in life is to serve God and tell others about His love for them. Could you offer to pray for those distressed folks whose phone calls you receive? As a farm family coach I often ask permission from the family circle to pray for them to ask for wisdom and blessing as they work hard to transfer the farm business to the next generation. Rarely do people decline prayer.

Billy Graham told his readers: “Jesus Christ can come into your heart and forgive your sins, cleanse you and change you. Christ stands ready to give hope to everyone. Christ’s truth can make you free.” John 8:31-32 says, “If you hold on to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

If this is the first Easter that you are truly curious about who Jesus is, I encourage you to read a recent translation of the Bible, and start with the book of John. I like the “Message” translation as it uses today’s language. I also encourage you to find a small group to study your questions about Christ, and be connected to Christian people who also struggle, yet know God’s goodness in their lives. Call the pastor of your local church, and find out how to get connected. Go to an Alpha course (

I’ve done a lot of speaking over the years about living an intentional life, or finding balance in a complex world. Some people think “balance” should be replaced by the word “integration.” Whatever you call it, people need to have a sense of wholeness. My pamphlet from “The Passion” talks about the followers of Jesus being devoted to Him because He took the broken pieces of their lives and gave them the peace of His life. Jesus said, “Peace, I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” — John 14:27 (NIV)

When I was 15, (40 years ago!) Jesus met my deepest needs and I committed my life to a relationship with Him. May you find your deepest needs met this Easter, as you accept the gift of eternal life from a loving God who conquered death, and gives us hope. He is risen indeed!

Celebrate well this year with your family. Show your love and appreciation for each other. Love God. Love people. Serve the world. †

About the author


Elaine Froese is a Manitoba 150 Woman Trailblazer. She is passionate to guide farm families to find harmony through understanding. Her mission is for you to have rich relationships on your farm. Visit to learn more and book her for speaking engagements at



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